Running before walking

This is easy to do once the decision to buy a home has been made. It means rushing off looking at homes, surfing the web or calling on advertisements before doing some up-front preparation. Not spending time doing this preparation, though, can be a disaster. We get a number of emails from buyers who have contracted to purchase a home and want to know the easiest way of getting out of the purchase. Let it be known loud and clear: If you contract to purchase a home and "change your mind," the chances of getting released from the contract are almost non-existent. Still we hear "We found another home!" Sorry, too late. Maybe next time. "We are buying too much house!" Okay, maybe you will be able to rent out a room or two. " It's not what we want!" Maybe you can paint the house, or add on to it or replace the carpeting, but you will almost certainly will be living in it!

Over-buying the first time

Being "house poor" is an uncomfortable existence. A large and beautiful home with little or no furniture tends to be empty and cold. A life where almost every dime of your earnings goes to support your house wears thin very quickly and is a frequent cause of family stress. Pushing yourself right up to - or beyond - your limits leaves you highly exposed when the inevitable changes to the national or your personal economy occur. Leave yourself some breathing room!

Finding out too late that you have no representation

This can be a nasty surprise when you assume that the Agent with whom you are working represents you when they actually represent - and owe complete allegiance to - the seller. How does this happen? By not taking the time to investigate and familiarize yourself with the laws regarding Agency. Or, by rushing out to look at homes, whether in person or on the Internet, and contacting the Agent who has the house advertised (who will be the listing Agent and will absolutely represent the seller). Another pitfall occurs when you try to represent yourself in the purchase of a home, thinking that you will save money. This may be the case, but it is just as - or more - likely that you will run into a savvy seller who is looking to keep the commission savings in their pocket rather than give it to you. In addition, without representation and the use of a Comparative Market Analysis, how do you determine a realistic selling price for a property?

Not comparing mortgages

There are far too many variables - type of mortgage, term, lender and amount of points to mention a few - not to investigate your options carefully. Don't simply accept the first plan presented to you, whether it is from a mortgage broker, an Agent or the recommendation of a friend or relative. Spend time comparing to get the most advantageous plan for your requirements and financial situation.

Not getting mortgage preapproval

In the past it may have been different, but today prequalification and preapprovals are a necessary part of the home buying process. Not only will it give you an exact price range for your purchase, preapproval will add a great deal of strength to your offer.

Waiting for the "perfect" home

Many first time buyers make the mistake of thinking that they will, if they look around long enough, find a home that meets 100% of their needs and wants. With the thousands of variables available in housing, including location, style, size, amenities and condition, this is almost always an unrealistic goal. There are two potential problems with this strategy: First, these buyers pass by homes that meet 90% or more of their requirements only to eventually give up (often purchasing homes that meet fewer of their requirements because they are worn out!). Second, while they are waiting for the "perfect" home, housing market prices (and often mortgage rates) continue to rise, adding expense to their purchase. Instead, it makes sense to determine the most important of your needs and the most desired of your wants, then select a home that meets the majority of them.

Shortcutting the house inspection process

This can involve skipping a whole house inspection completely in order to save the relatively small cost involved or it may involve using a friend or relative with limited experience to conduct the inspection. In either case you run the risk of overlooking potentially expensive - or even hazardous - defects in the property. Protect yourself and invest the $200 to $500 for a professional inspection.

reprinted courtesy of Our Family Place